[CITASA] Better connected -- Really?

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Anthony Spina
Tue, Jul 27, 2010 4:14 PM

Hello all,

I was interested to see Bella DePaulo's research findings.  Although I would very much like to embrace the fact that growing isolation is a myth, the critical aspects of my thinking leave me somewhat skeptical.

I do appreciate and respect excellent research conducted by experts in their disciplines.  However, my observations (which I do not consider to be valid research) and those of peers in my limited circle of experience seem to indicate the myth is not yet quite proven to be so.

Therefore, I am not yet convinced that the our current offering of information technologies and sources of connecting have in fact strengthened our relationships.  Good research gives rise to more research and I think more research is in order before reaching the conclusion that we are better connected now than in the past.

Tony Spina

Hello all, I was interested to see Bella DePaulo's research findings. Although I would very much like to embrace the fact that growing isolation is a myth, the critical aspects of my thinking leave me somewhat skeptical. I do appreciate and respect excellent research conducted by experts in their disciplines. However, my observations (which I do not consider to be valid research) and those of peers in my limited circle of experience seem to indicate the myth is not yet quite proven to be so. Therefore, I am not yet convinced that the our current offering of information technologies and sources of connecting have in fact strengthened our relationships. Good research gives rise to more research and I think more research is in order before reaching the conclusion that we are better connected now than in the past. Tony Spina
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bevjimcl@aol.com
Wed, Jul 28, 2010 6:20 PM

Tony,

While ICTs may not have strengthened all of our relationships, they certainly have enabled us to grow our networks and there is strength in weak ties (Granovetter). Additionally, I would argue that ICTs, such cell phones, have strengthened our closest ties. Lack of isolation is not necessarily equated with strong ties. I agree that we need to continue research in this area, but there is a wealth of solid research by Wellman, Gulia, Ling and many others that refutes the myth of isolation.

Best,

Bev Carlsen-Landy

-----Original Message-----
From: Anthony Spina drspina@optonline.net
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Sent: Tue, Jul 27, 2010 11:14 am
Subject: [CITASA] Better connected -- Really?

Hello all,

I was interested to see Bella DePaulo's research findings.  Although I would very much like to embrace the fact that growing isolation is a myth, the critical aspects of my thinking leave me somewhat skeptical.

I do appreciate and respect excellent research conducted by experts in their disciplines.  However, my observations (which I do not consider to be valid research) and those of peers in my limited circle of experience seem to indicate the myth is not yet quite proven to be so.

Therefore, I am not yet convinced that the our current offering of information technologies and sources of connecting have in fact strengthened our relationships.  Good research gives rise to more research and I think more research is in order before reaching the conclusion that we are better connected now than in the past.

Tony Spina


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Tony, While ICTs may not have strengthened all of our relationships, they certainly have enabled us to grow our networks and there is strength in weak ties (Granovetter). Additionally, I would argue that ICTs, such cell phones, have strengthened our closest ties. Lack of isolation is not necessarily equated with strong ties. I agree that we need to continue research in this area, but there is a wealth of solid research by Wellman, Gulia, Ling and many others that refutes the myth of isolation. Best, Bev Carlsen-Landy -----Original Message----- From: Anthony Spina <drspina@optonline.net> To: citasa@list.citasa.org Sent: Tue, Jul 27, 2010 11:14 am Subject: [CITASA] Better connected -- Really? Hello all, I was interested to see Bella DePaulo's research findings. Although I would very much like to embrace the fact that growing isolation is a myth, the critical aspects of my thinking leave me somewhat skeptical. I do appreciate and respect excellent research conducted by experts in their disciplines. However, my observations (which I do not consider to be valid research) and those of peers in my limited circle of experience seem to indicate the myth is not yet quite proven to be so. Therefore, I am not yet convinced that the our current offering of information technologies and sources of connecting have in fact strengthened our relationships. Good research gives rise to more research and I think more research is in order before reaching the conclusion that we are better connected now than in the past. Tony Spina = _______________________________________________ ITASA mailing list ITASA@list.citasa.org ttp://list.citasa.org/mailman/listinfo/citasa_list.citasa.org
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david.louden@l-3com.com
Wed, Jul 28, 2010 7:59 PM

Tony and Bev;

This is a discussion that deserves attention.  Evaluation, assessment
and analysis across orders within demographic categories should offer
some insights.  The growing isolation that I have become concerned over
is one of physical isolation in which technology-enabled communications
becomes substitute for face to face contact.  The same technology offers
as does the Plain Old Telephone a means of disassociation while still
facilitating communications.  For some, this can be very cathartic.
And, I absolutely agree with your point as to there being " strength in
weak ties"  viewed en masse.  Pawns can deliver a checkmate on occasion.
The same technology also gives rise to thinking on the growth of the
Borderless State, a real evolutionary concept.  I am the amateur here,
so feel free to disagree.

Cheers, Dave

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Sent: Wednesday, July 28, 2010 2:20 PM
To: drspina@optonline.net; citasa@list.citasa.org
Subject: Re: [CITASA] Better connected -- Really?

Tony,

While ICTs may not have strengthened all of our relationships, they
certainly have enabled us to grow our networks and there is strength in
weak ties (Granovetter). Additionally, I would argue that ICTs, such
cell phones, have strengthened our closest ties. Lack of isolation is
not necessarily equated with strong ties. I agree that we need to
continue research in this area, but there is a wealth of solid research
by Wellman, Gulia, Ling and many others that refutes the myth of
isolation.

Best,

Bev Carlsen-Landy

-----Original Message-----
From: Anthony Spina drspina@optonline.net
To: citasa@list.citasa.org
Sent: Tue, Jul 27, 2010 11:14 am
Subject: [CITASA] Better connected -- Really?

Hello all,

I was interested to see Bella DePaulo's research findings.  Although I
would very much like to embrace the fact that growing isolation is a
myth, the critical aspects of my thinking leave me somewhat skeptical.

I do appreciate and respect excellent research conducted by experts in
their disciplines.  However, my observations (which I do not consider to
be valid research) and those of peers in my limited circle of experience
seem to indicate the myth is not yet quite proven to be so.

Therefore, I am not yet convinced that the our current offering of
information technologies and sources of connecting have in fact
strengthened our relationships.  Good research gives rise to more
research and I think more research is in order before reaching the
conclusion that we are better connected now than in the past.

Tony Spina

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Tony and Bev; This is a discussion that deserves attention. Evaluation, assessment and analysis across orders within demographic categories should offer some insights. The growing isolation that I have become concerned over is one of physical isolation in which technology-enabled communications becomes substitute for face to face contact. The same technology offers as does the Plain Old Telephone a means of disassociation while still facilitating communications. For some, this can be very cathartic. And, I absolutely agree with your point as to there being " strength in weak ties" viewed en masse. Pawns can deliver a checkmate on occasion. The same technology also gives rise to thinking on the growth of the Borderless State, a real evolutionary concept. I am the amateur here, so feel free to disagree. Cheers, Dave From: citasa-bounces@list.citasa.org [mailto:citasa-bounces@list.citasa.org] On Behalf Of bevjimcl@aol.com Sent: Wednesday, July 28, 2010 2:20 PM To: drspina@optonline.net; citasa@list.citasa.org Subject: Re: [CITASA] Better connected -- Really? Tony, While ICTs may not have strengthened all of our relationships, they certainly have enabled us to grow our networks and there is strength in weak ties (Granovetter). Additionally, I would argue that ICTs, such cell phones, have strengthened our closest ties. Lack of isolation is not necessarily equated with strong ties. I agree that we need to continue research in this area, but there is a wealth of solid research by Wellman, Gulia, Ling and many others that refutes the myth of isolation. Best, Bev Carlsen-Landy -----Original Message----- From: Anthony Spina <drspina@optonline.net> To: citasa@list.citasa.org Sent: Tue, Jul 27, 2010 11:14 am Subject: [CITASA] Better connected -- Really? Hello all, I was interested to see Bella DePaulo's research findings. Although I would very much like to embrace the fact that growing isolation is a myth, the critical aspects of my thinking leave me somewhat skeptical. I do appreciate and respect excellent research conducted by experts in their disciplines. However, my observations (which I do not consider to be valid research) and those of peers in my limited circle of experience seem to indicate the myth is not yet quite proven to be so. Therefore, I am not yet convinced that the our current offering of information technologies and sources of connecting have in fact strengthened our relationships. Good research gives rise to more research and I think more research is in order before reaching the conclusion that we are better connected now than in the past. Tony Spina = _______________________________________________ CITASA mailing list CITASA@list.citasa.org http://list.citasa.org/mailman/listinfo/citasa_list.citasa.org